If The Fire Is Gone From Your Sex Life

If the fire is gone from your sex life, one or both of you better get more creative about your sexual fantasies. Here are some things you can do:

Surprise him or her with a picnic at work or a rendezvous call from a motel after work.

Rent a limousine for a few hours and make love in it.

Exchange apartments with another couple for an evening.

Create delicious anticipatory anxiety by going out on a limb, and doing something that makes you nervous, like meeting him for dinner with nothing on under your coat, and making sure he knows it. The mind delights in naughtiness and no one is harmed.

Read a romance novel together, or watch steamy TV or videos.

Stop acting like adults. "Be as Little Children - Play.

Use candles for a romantic atmosphere, bath together, swim nude, use incense, play music, give each other massages, try naked sun bathing at a nudists beach, with appropriate sun-block of course.

Keep a dream book for each of you in which you put small medium and large adventures you fantasize. Small are a few hours, medium are an overnight or weekend, large are vacations of a week or more. Look into each others book or ideas on how to keep passion in your "rut" marriage. Use your playful side to live joyously.

Write down your fantasies about sex play and exchange the lists or letters and write a response back about how you feel (feminine) and think (masculine) about each others fantasies and desires. Great guys deserve fun, with sexy, sensuous, wonderful women like you. And you deserve GREAT SEX.

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'Sexuality education' for 5-year-olds is 'not about sex at all', NZ Planned ... - Lifesite


Lifesite

'Sexuality education' for 5-year-olds is 'not about sex at all', NZ Planned ...
Lifesite
AUCKLAND, New Zealand, November 7, 2013 (LifeSiteNews.com) - The New Zealand Family Planning Association is trying to save face after public backlash over the Association's plan to release a sexuality resource for children aged 5 to 8 later this month.
If College Students Can't Say What 'Consent' Is, Then We...The New Republic

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UF not responsible for drop in sexual health rankings - The Independent Florida Alligator


UF not responsible for drop in sexual health rankings
The Independent Florida Alligator
“Stanger-Hall and Hall discovered that the states with the lowest teen pregnancy rates institute 'abstinence-plus' sex education, ensuring that abstinence and information about sexual health and contraceptives are both covered,” PolicyMic stated.

Texas School District Sex Education Compares Non-Virgins To Chewed Gum - Huffington Post


Texas School District Sex Education Compares Non-Virgins To Chewed Gum
Huffington Post
Sexual health advocate Katie Gustainis Vela recently obtained what appears to be an instructional worksheet meant for teachers who lecture on sex ed. Vela tweeted a photo of the worksheet -- which likens people who have premarital sex to pieces of ...

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Will sex education help school children? - Zambia Daily Mail (blog)


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Will sex education help school children?
Zambia Daily Mail (blog)
The ugly truth has prompted Ministry of Education, UNESCO and other stakeholders to develop a comprehensive sexuality education framework that will be infused into the school curriculum. The new curriculum is coming into effect in 2014, and only pupils ...

sex ed guidelines start at Year 1 - New Zealand Herald


sex ed guidelines start at Year 1
New Zealand Herald
Teachers of students as young as 5 will soon have access to new sexuality education guidelines addressing issues such as identity and relationships. The guidelines commissioned by Family Planning are designed to help teachers of students in Years 1 to ...

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Katie Fitzpatrick: Quality sex education vital for schools - New Zealand Herald


Katie Fitzpatrick: Quality sex education vital for schools
New Zealand Herald
Again, as Rebecca Kamm noted, sexual assault rates go down as social awareness of these issues goes up. Sexuality classes, as part of health education, are currently given very little curriculum time in secondary and intermediate schools. While it is a ...


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