How To Use A Vibrator

There are many different ways to use a vibrator, it is impossible to list them all becuase it lies up to the imagination! Be creative and let your inhibitions go and explore your sexuality to it's full extent. There are however some tips that will ensure a completely satisfying experience:

The first and most important factor in a pleasurable experience is proper lubrication. Always use a water based personal lubricant with your vibrator for comfort and that slippery feel. Natural lubrication is often not enough and that could cause discomfort.

In fact, the major reason why women report that they do not enjoy vibrators is becuase they did not use personal lubricant! Always make sure your personal lubricant is water based because silicone lubricant will ruin silicone vibrators, and petroleum lubricant will ruin virtually any vibrator material. It is safe to use a flavoured lubricant and many women enjoy flavoured lubricant becuase it adds an enjoyable sweet smell. Shop discreetly for personal lubricant at

You can use a vibrator anally but it is not recommended due to the unsanitary aspect of using a vibrator in your anus then inserting it directly into the vagina without proper cleaning first. There are harmful bacteria that could cause infections. You can use a vibrator anally if you wash it with sex toy cleaner first before inserting it into the vagina. It is always best to stay on the safe side and buy anal toys for anal use only and keep your vibrator for vaginal use only.

A Few Tips:

- Never share a vibrator unless you put a condom on it first

- Use a rabbit vibrator upside down, meaning use the clitoral stimulator 'rabbit ears' to stimulate your anus, another erogenous zone for amazing sensations!

- If you are using a waterproof vibrator, make sure the battery case is closed tightly because if water enters, it will ruin the motor, but no, you will not electrocute yourself!

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